Archive for the ‘Feelings’ Category

Losing Someone

Saturday, May 1st, 2010

The loss of a friend or family member sucks. There is absolutely no other way to put it. Whether it is over a period of time or completely unexpected, it still sucks. The loss of life is one of the more difficult things in life to comprehend, and dealing with that loss is just as hard to understand. No one ever wishes for death in their life, but it is a reality of it. The best one can do when confronted with such a challenge, is to simply survive it. Death brings sadness, confusion, anger, which can severely crippled any human being, but continuing to strive in one’s own life is all that can really be done. Remembrance is a key factor, but not one based on loss but rather one based on appreciation of a life lived. Having someone taken from you can be so traumatic, but letting that loss create an environment of despair is an even greater loss. Moving forward, whether fast or slowly is all one can do.

- Ruben

Endless Bullying

Wednesday, April 28th, 2010

What used to be a schoolyard dispute has now, with the internet and cell phones, become a twenty-four hour onslaught of bullying. The unfortunate side-effect of technology is that, whatever the benefit, it brings with it some type of negative. In this case, bullying is a lot more common, a lot more severe, and a lot more dangerous than before. In this month’s issue of Switched On, Ally talks about the horrible consequences bullying can have, even when it starts as something as seemingly harmless as joking with someone. If you’re being bullied, or know someone who is being bullied, you should know that the National Runaway Switchboard is there for you. We can help talk about what’s going on and what to do about it. While nobody should be getting bullied, that’s not the case. But by calling NRS and letting us help, we can start to change that.

- Will

Escape in Moderation

Friday, April 2nd, 2010

In all walks of life, there are challenges and stressors that prove to be obstacles. Typically, these roadblocks become more significant as we get older, and leave dependency for a life filled with unknown possibilities along with daunting challenges. Nearly everyone has a way to “escape” from the issues getting them upset. Some, like reading, watching television, or watching movies, are relatively harmless. Others, like drugs, alcohol, or just reckless living, can render a situation much worse than it began. The fact is, nothing in abundance will be helpful. “Escaping from reality” becomes a negative when it means overindulging in anything. Even reading, or working, is unhealthy at a certain point. We aren’t machines, and so we need variety. There’s no shame in taking some time for pure enjoyment, as long as that “some time” doesn’t morph into “most time.”

Here, There, Everywhere

Tuesday, March 30th, 2010

So I have a couple things on my mind. Yes sometimes I feel like just talking about random things but sometimes it is a good idea to let feelings out. The first thing is spring break is here!! I’m so excited. I don’t get to be at school for two days before because I have to drive to Arizona. That kind of sucks because like I said in a previous blog that it will be with family and sometimes they make me mad. But the end result will be me tanning. I am happy for that. The second thing is that my boyfriend went back to his hometown in Texas for his spring break. I missed him a whole lot. Then he comes back wanting to go to school there. It makes me sad that he does because I don’t know what will happen between us. I do try talking to him but he doesn’t know what he wants to do. When he tells me oh I want to go to Texas I feel really bad. Then he says he might stay here for summer school. I want to forget about it until the time it actually has to be talked about but it is really hard when you see the word “TEXAS” everywhere.

- Tatiana


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