Sometimes we are ashamed, of ourselves and others, but sometimes others are ashamed of us, and deny us. Sometimes they deny us for who we are. Coming out and telling a family member that you are gay or lesbian can be difficult. This can frighten them, as many people don’t accept what is different or unknown to them. Everyone wants to be accepted and acknowledged, but it doesn’t always work out. It can cause hurt and damage from being denied, especially if we feel that we can’t do anything about it. There is always someone there to help you cope; we just don’t always notice it. Family members can be afraid of the unknown, but once they understand that there is nothing wrong, the family can become stronger and things can get better. There is advice and resources to turn to if there is a misconception of one’s orientation. No one is alone ever. Family is meant to stick together no matter the circumstances, sometimes it may just take a while to get there.
- Stefannie
Archive for the ‘LGBTQ’ Category
Family Approval
Thursday, January 12th, 2012
True Friend
Friday, October 7th, 2011
In my freshman year, it was the most difficult time of my life. I had discovered that we were getting eviction notices and I had now gotten myself in an abusive relationship. What was worse is that I didn’t know who to turn too. This was when I met my new best friend, and although many people wouldn’t have approved, I did become friends with him. He was gay and I knew it. I had seen him around before in school but somehow we began talking and soon enough we became best friends. We began to keep a journal together. It was so special to me. He would help me cope with my situation, and try to deter me from it as well. Many times I wouldn’t listen to him and I ended up drowning myself in troubles. It got worse and worse but he was always there for me and I was there for him when he needed me. I would go over my mistakes just to meet him all over again. His friendship is something I will never forget. The one most significant moment of our friendship was when I was expelled in from my high school that freshman year, and I ended up in a group home. That is when I needed him most.
- Stefannie
Well, I Must Confess…
Tuesday, August 9th, 2011
It’s safe to say that most people don’t have that clear of a view of the LGBT community. And why should they? In today’s society, the one we’ve grown so accustomed to, they don’t have to hide who or what they like. It’s a bit unfair to say, though at times, being heterosexual, being “the norm”, just looks easier. There’s no need to hide your interest, or even to wonder just who may be interested in you, just because they have no need to hide theirs either. To play the dating game when your sexuality doesn’t fall behind the line of normal isn’t very much of a game at all. I’ve heard from friends how hard it is to find someone when you don’t want to put yourself out there, for the risk of being outed. I’ve read on tumblr just what people would give for the chance to have a secret term for you, and only you to know, if someone was playing on your team. All relatable risks, I’d say, regardless of your sexuality. Still, I feel as though even that risk shouldn’t stop you. I must confess, I think fear in that regard runs far too many lives. Being gun shy with love is one thing, but it makes me wonder if being fearful of other’s opinions with regard to your own personal matters is worth it? You guys tell me for whom it would matter, won’t you?
- Eric
LGBT Pride
Saturday, July 2nd, 2011
The latest magazine issue is about LGBT pride. June was LGBT awareness month. Usually towards the end of the month Chicago has a pride parade. Everyone of every sexual orientation comes together and show that they happy to be who they are. I have never been to the parade but would love to go one day. Even if my sexual orientation does not belong in the LGBT category I have no problem showing my support for their choice. I believe people should be proud of what they are no matter what. It is sad that there is still homophobia in the world but there is increasing acceptance all over. Just recently New York passed a law allowing same-sex marriage. Many couples are probably ecstatic at the new law. Same-sex couples can have the same rights and privileges as heterosexual partners. It is good to know that people in New York can have the freedom that they want to marry.
- Tatiana