To say I love you? Maybe that should come before, if you have to ask yourself this question… I think it’s safe to assume that the majority of people you see in school have already had sex, even if they don’t look the type. It surprised me when I found out how many people had, though I was more shocked by all the problems that came along with what they’d done. For some it was a goal, for others, a happy “accident”, though they all had the same issues: do I just move on or try to make this “thing” work?; do I love them, or do I love the sex? It’s refreshing to see the few that want to “wait for the right time”, seemingly out of fear of all the complications that it would bring. At times I envy people that can have a fling without a second thought, but at the same time, I’m glad that can look at them from afar, popcorn in hand. I like to see sparks fly. But, is there a right time? I’m guessing it depends on yourselves.
- Eric