Archive for the ‘The Parents’ Category

Dead beat dads…a trend that needs to end

Saturday, October 2nd, 2010

For much of the U.S. population, absentee fathers is the most significant family or social problem facing America. There is a trend sweeping the nation. No, it’s not a fashion trend, but it seems to be a growing trend in the United States.  Absent parents, but more specifically, absent fathers.  Many teens in the U.S. have been victimized by this trend.  Unlike other trends, this one shows no signs of going out of style.  At such a fragile age, children and teens are being deprived of vital bonding with their father.  Many men have many excuses for abandoning their children. Many argue that they are not fit to be a parent, and they don’t want to ruin the life of their child. If they only knew how their absence would affect their child and his/her growth, maybe they would stay.  Many children with absent fathers look to fill that void in all the wrong places, and with all the wrong things.  An estimated 24.7 million children (36.3%) live absent from their biological father.  Children with absent fathers, on average, are more likely to be poor, experience educational, health, emotional, and psychological problems, be victims of child abuse, and engage in criminal behavior than those children with both a mother and a father in the household.  This trend needs to go out of style soon, before it becomes an epidemic.

–Elijah X

Parents Can Help

Tuesday, July 27th, 2010

Hiding things from our parents is natural. We don’t like them prying into our business. Even though our parents are just trying to protect us. There are so many cases where teens hide everything that is going on and end up getting into a lot of trouble. There is cyberbullying that is a huge problem and so is rape or kidnapping. Teens don’t tell their parents what is going on and many consequences happen. You hear on the news that a girl was threatened over the internet, it escalated, and she committed suicide. The parents always wonder what they could have done to help their child but it is always too late. I’m not saying tell all your business of what happens online to your parents. If you feel like you are in any sort of trouble tell your parents. They are there to help you when you need it, not always ruin your life.

- Tatiana

Disconnected Youth

Monday, July 19th, 2010

Empty houses aren't always a good thing.

My parents left this weekend to go on the annual camping trip our family hosts. Since I’m working this year, I can’t attend – not a huge downer, actually. At least, it wasn’t at first, as I was free to leave dishes dirty, socks scattered, and A.C. ablaze. But really, once the euphoria of zero rules wears out, it’s kind of weird being alone. The quiet turns more eerie than relaxing, the filth less carefree than disgusting. This is just another reminder of how tough it must be for some people to be disconnected from their parents. I mean, besides the dependency most youth have on their mothers and fathers to provide for them, just being estranged from them must be really tough. I’m of the belief that what most consider normalcy is in fact really great fortune. A stable family life, rather than being trite, is an extraordinary thing to be a part of. Helping others try to achieve such stability, or finding solutions if they can’t, should be a major priority for those of us lucky enough to have found either already.

- Will

Father’s Day was yesterday? Crap.

Monday, June 21st, 2010

photo courtesy flickr user gilzee

So – I heard it was Father’s Day this Sunday? Huh. Yeah, I didn’t know either. Was there some announcement I missed? Well, no use crying over spilled milk, right? I wonder if my dad even knew. Father’s Day just doesn’t have the ring to it that other holidays have. It seems like the reject, the black sheep in the flock. What are you even supposed to get as a gift? Most dads (pretend they) don’t like flowers or chocolate, which are pretty much staples for Mother’s Day. Frankly, maybe getting nothing as a gift isn’t so bad. Maybe letting them have the day off is enough. I mean, despite the fact that fathers don’t have to go through labor, or nurse infants, they still do a lot of work, and they deserve something. So next year, let’s try to remember to acknowledge their efforts – if only for one day.

- Will


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